To share her joy of her Hypnobabies births. She has had 2 babies using Hypnobabies. Each baby weighed over 10 pounds!
Here is the link to Cynthia’s Hypnobabies Birth Blog. Go check it out!
I lost my mucous plug on Saturday (December. 1st…my due date was the
5th) and had some waves that night, but they stopped around three in
the morning. The next day we walked around the mall and about a
million other places but the waves weren’t coming back. Finally I
decided to go to be around seven at night and they started up
again. I took a bath around nine, watched a movie, and got my
birthing pool ready. Around three in the morning on Monday, December.
3rd, I decided to call my midwife. I was already at 6cm with a
ripened cervix and fully effaced. Two hours later I was at 10 cm.
Up to this point, I hadn’t felt any pain whatsoever.
That’s when things got a little rough…my midwife’s partner decided
to check me to see what was going on because I still didn’t feel the
need to push. I felt INCREDIBLY uncomfortable having her up there
and told her to get her hand away from me and she wouldn’t!!
Anyway, after what seemed like forever, she finally listened to me.
(thanks to my wonderful midwife and friend, Rachel Talley). Anyway,
I felt so uncomfortable that I think I consciously decided to wait a
little longer before having my baby…I didn’t feel ready for it
anymore, and it took me quite a while to get over that feeling.
We got out of the pool for a while and I tried sitting backwards on
the toilet or laying in bed, but it wasn’t helping. The midwives
decided to leave Jason and me alone in the bedroom for a while…it
was actually an amazing experience…my husband started praying for
us and showed an extremely vulnerable side that I’d never seen
before. He told me that Ammon was there with us and that he was on
our way and would be here soon. That gave me some encouragement.
As a side note, I hadn’t invited my mom to the birth because she was
really uncomfortable with the idea of a home birth, so I decided
that I didn’t want negative vibes there. Well, around eleven in the
morning (after about six hours of being fully dilated), she randomly
showed up! It was an amazing experience, though, because I had all
of a sudden really felt the need to have her there, but didn’t want
to call her because I’d felt bad about not inviting her in the first
place. It seems as though as soon as my mom showed up, things
started moving again.
I had to get out of the pool for a while and push on a makeshift
birthing pool (it was so uncomfortable that my butt hurt for a few
days). After several more hours of pushing (you can imagine how
tired I was…I hadn’t slept since Friday night…I was even falling
asleep in between waves!!), my little boys’ head came into sight and
he started crowning. I got back into the pool for my water birth
and had the opportunity to deliver him completely on my own. (This
was at 2:34 after about nine and a half hours of being fully dilated)
He latched on immediately and has been great with BFing ever since.
He weighed exactly 8 lbs and measured 21.5 inches. He’s absolutely
beautiful with blue eyes (must have come from several generations
back because he and I and all our parents have dark brown eyes),
olive skin, and a full head of dark hair.
As for the Hypnobabies…I had my Hypnobabies CD’s going in the
background, but that’s all I did. I’m not sure if it was the
hypnosis, but I can honestly say that the only discomfort I felt was
with the midwife. All the waves were strong and empowering, but no
pain at all. Even the actual birth felt no worse than an Indian
Well, guess that wasn’t exactly short, was it? Anyway, I’d like to
thank all three of you, especially Laura I absolutely loved my
homebirth/Hypnobabies experience and can’t wait for the next one!!
This birth story was shared by a mom from the Hypnobabies Yahoo Group. Come join us if you want to learn more about Hypnobabies! (You must send an introduction to be approved to the group)
I read this great review on Molly Reads Blog for a Prenatal Yoga DVD.
It is called Yoga for Your Pregnancy by Yoga Journal and Lamaze. You should go read Molly’s post, because she has actually used it. She is also a wonderful Childbirth Educator, so she knows her stuff! But is sounds like a great exercise tool for expecting and even postpartum moms.
Molly finishes her review saying, “There is an interview with the instructor as one of the bonus features and she talks about her planned homebirth which progressed very quickly and so she ended up having an unplanned unassisted birth, which I thought was cool. She also talks about using hypnosis to prepare for birth.”
Yoga and Hypnosis are great in combination in preparing for and birthing your baby.
Last Saturday, February 16th, 2008, I had my 40 Week 3 Day appointment. My midwife did an internal and said I was the same as last week (3cm Dilated). Boy was I disappointed. She offered to sweep my membranes again, (Which we had done for past 3 weeks) and of course since I was tired of pregnancy and felt it as time I said yes. She did the sweep and as we were sitting on her couch visiting I started to get waves.
She had just delivered another baby at 8 am and had been up all night so she was going home to sleep for a couple of hours. When we left the appointment it was about 2 o’clock. A quick note, I had decided to homebirth about 32 weeks along in this pregnancy. I loved my obgyn but she was going to be out of town on my due date week. She had suggested being induced a week early so she could support me in my effort for a natural childbirth. But my whole reason for going for natural and not an epidural this time had been to see/trust my body to work on its own this time so being induced did not sound reasonable at all to me.
I found a great direct entry (homebirth in Utah) midwife and began seeing her in December. We decide to go eat lunch and see if the waves would progress. We stopped at one Costco to get gas then started heading towards Chili’s. On our way there I decided to start timing waves at 2:46pm. They were coming every 5-6 minutes consistently. I decided I couldn’t sit through a sit down lunch with these waves so we headed to a different Costco to eat pizza with the kids and walk around. Well we got to eating pizza but I couldn’t walk they were so strong.
I was fine breathing through them and was using a method called Hypnobabies to cope with the waves. This is a method of Self Hypnosis and it worked great for me. I imagined my waves as waves on the ocean and just rode them out not experiencing pain but definitely pressure. We called our midwife Vivian and told her sorry to wake you but this is where I am. She said to drive home and let her know if I was still having waves. Half an hour later we were home it was about 5pm. I timed waves for another hour and they stayed about 4-5 minutes apart. I was sensing a difference in them though so I called her and asked her to drive up. This takes about 45 minutes from where she is so we called our families to give them the heads up as well.
When Vivian got to our house I was still timing waves online. She took one look at me and said are you willing to stop timing your waves and just admit you are in labor? I laughed and said yes and we headed downstairs. We did an internal and I was at a 7-8. At this point when I was having waves the top part of the waves were very intense and I had to have my husband holding my hands then but they were still completely something I could handle. I was upset because the water tub was still not full but it was full enough to get in.
I had been laboring on a birth ball which was great until transition where I dropped to my knees and held my husbands hands. By now it was about 8:30pm. I was in the pushing stage for about 30 minutes and with 4 pushes Emira was out and joined us at 8:56pm. She was a perfect 8lb 2 oz and 21 inches long. She came out peacefully and lay on my chest. She did have the cord wrapped around her neck twice so my husband was unable to catch her which I think was a little disappointing to him but of course the Emira’s safety was our top priority.
We went to the pediatrician two days later and everything still looked great. We have been home a week today and she is sweet and sleeps a ton and is my first child I am able to really breastfeed (because of work schedule) so I am so excited to have this time with her.
A couple of quick thoughts. My waves never came closer than 4minutes apart lasting at most 2 minutes so it was good I could feel the change from regular to transition stage. My water didn’t break until I was pushing and already fully dilated, so all those “signs” I was watching for never happened but being in tune with my body ended up being the most important thing.
Also, my Hypnobabies technique was so effective at keeping me in a state of calm that even my mother who is a RN and was totally against homebirth/natural childbirth said you have convinced me if all births could be this peaceful, birth would be viewed completely differently. If you made it this far into my story thanks for reading and good luck to everyone with their sweet babies.
-Hospital birth with MW
-First baby, did not find out sex before birth
-5’8″ 120 lbs. pre-pregnancy, gained 35 pounds
-Used BabyPlus machine starting at 18 weeks, less regimented towards end of pregnancy
-Faithfully practiced Hypnobabies home study course daily from week 25 to birth
-GBS + (had saline lock and was given 2 rounds of antibiotics)
-Baby arrived at 38 1/2 weeks
-From 5 cm to Baby’s birth: 5 1/2 hours
-Had chiropractic treatment (massage and adjustment) for sciatica every other week from
-Did acupuncture treatment starting at 30 weeks (2 treatments total)
-Success thanks to Hypnobabies resulted in drug-free, discomfort free, GLORIOUS birth!
I awoke the morning of April 30 at around 1:30 a.m. with menstrual-type cramps that
continued throughout the night at the rate of roughly four per hour. My DH and mom
headed off to yoga around 9 a.m. later that morning, and I emailed the Hypnobabies
groups my “real thing” question, as I really didn’t have any idea how long these would or
could go on.
The cramps were lasting from :45 to 1:50 and seemed pretty consistent, coming about
every ten minutes. They were fairly strong and a good chance to practice my “off” switch
and other Hypno-tools.
We had a standing appointment with our MW at 1:45 but I put a call in anyway to let them
know what was happening. Very calmly they said to just keep doing what we’re doing and
to come to the appt. I was hungry and had 2 soft boiled eggs and a little bit of toast, this
breakfast was falling pretty short of what I usually eat, but I felt I needed protein and was
a bit shaky from all the cramps through the night.
When I went to get ready for the MW, around 11:30 a.m., I saw brownish spotting, the first
time in my entire pregnancy. This moment was feeling more and more real, and I told my
DH and my parents (we are delivering near their house and will spend time here with the
new little one) and my sweet DH, he went into HIGH GEAR. (I finally had to tell him to relax
because his frenetic packing the car was getting me a bit nervous, all the racing about! He
was adorable, with one of the baby monitors on his belt and the other with me, staying
“relaxed” and in “off” or center.
At our 2 p.m. appt., our MW asked if I wanted to be checked and to my surprise, I did. I
just didn’t know still if this was the “real thing”. Sure enough, I was 100% effaced and
dilated to 3 cm. She told me I could either go home (about 8 minutes away) or hang out for
awhile, take a walk, and then go get ready to go get settled at the hospital. We opted to
walk the parking lot, up a hill, and while I was doing that, the waves seemed to come more
frequently, leaving me to bend over DH or lean or sit down on the curb. The waves came
closer together while walking and I soon wanted to rest, so I lay down in the back of our
truck with a camper shell (prepared with blankets, again DH!)
Checking in to the Hospital
We arrived at the hospital at 4:30. The MW’s assistant monitored the baby for a little bit-
it seemed she was dragging her feet a bit to give me a little more time to progress.
Wonderful! Our delivery hospital is very unique in our area in that they allow very
personalized births, laboring in tubs, birth attended by MW, but there was still a certain
level of bureaucracy that is to be expected. My hunch is the staff thought I was checking
in too early, really, but my MW knew my desire to get settled and I felt as though she
really advocated for me to be there.
By 5:30 we were moved and settled into our labor and delivery room-beautiful,
overlooking the Pacific Ocean with the entire western facing wall, windows. I was checked
and found to be at 4.5-5 cm. Good news.
The next two hours were uneventful, but focused. DH massaged my back constantly as I
sat spread eagle on the birthing ball, my pelvis tilted forward and leaning on the bed
listening to the “Birthing Day” CD. I just focused all my mental energy on my cervix to
keep that dilation moving along. By 7 p.m., I was at 8 cm with hardly noticing any
difference in intensity from what I had been feeling all day.
My two favorite places to be were on the ball or on the toilet, leaning against DH. He had
told me earlier that week that “I only had to get through one wave at a time, that’s it.” It
served as the singularly most powerful reminder during my birthing time and kept me
focused. At one point, I thought, “How much longer can this go on?” because it was
physically fairly strenuous and to work with my Hypnobabies training meant that, for me
at least, I was using a fair amount of mental exertion to keep on target.
At the time, I didn’t think I consciously used “center” much if at all-looking back though,
I believe I was in center the entire time. I had NO interest in walking around, conversing,
or taking energy away from the process or my body or baby. (I certainly didn’t touch my
special knitting “birthing time project” I had chosen, but did get to make the nursing staff
At 7 p.m., I told myself that I wanted to be birthing my baby at 9 p.m. (I didn’t do much of
the pre-visualization of my birth. I just didn’t know what to put in that space and wanted
it to develop into it’s own event, but I did do all of the positive reinforcements.) Around
8:30, I felt, or rather heard, my body begin to do something different. I assumed this was
transformation and could feel I was getting close.
Birthing My Baby
I used open mouth exhaling/ahhh guttural sounds and by this point, the sound totally
changed, deepened, it was remarkable. My body was totally in charge and I felt as though
I was just along for the ride, yet still very much in control of how I choose to work through
this time. I had totally forgotten about my bag of waters, and the one time my DH stepped
away to wash his hands, my mom (and his birth assistant) took over. “POP!”, my bag of
waters did not just break but they exploded in a projectile out in front of me (I was again
on the toilet), drenching my mom’s legs. It took us both my surprise!
My MW then came in to check me and at that point, yes, we were in business! The staff
was laying out drop cloths on the floor, and I moved to where they were, next to the
hospital bed. The first position I assumed was draped over DH’s shoulder, leaning over
him. It just felt the most natural, but my MW said he wouldn’t be able to see the birth, so I
then went in to a crouching position. At this point, I mostly lost my sense of time, except
the feeling that the birthing waves were not lasting very long. The “pushing” was far more
strenuous than I imagined it would be, and my MW soon recommended that I lean back
between waves and then with the next surge, pull my knees up and transfer that power to
“curl into my baby”.
To no avail. We tried this for a bit and then also sitting on the edge of the hospital bed
with the back up and converted into an upright chair. Still no baby. I guess her head would
come out and then “prairie dog” back in. She just wasn’t coming out. At this point, my
waves had slowed to about one every five minutes or so. Pulling back on my legs
exhausted me, that was very hard and my arms felt spent after all that pulling back, also
like it was pulling energy from the effort of pushing. I looked at my MW and said, “Ok,
what can we do to speed this up?!” I was getting a bit concerned, not for me or the baby,
but there was just this sense that after several pushes her head just wouldn’t go beyond
crowning-and I was certainly pushing my mightiest-and I just sensed concern on behalf
of the staff, a sixth sense or something.
I went into the most “wakeful” state I had been in and told my husband and sister to get
the washcloths and start with the nipple stimulation. My Type A tendencies clicked in!
Sure enough, DH and sis did, and I don’t know if it made a difference, but it made me feel
as though we were actively trying to move things forward. All I could do in between was
rest, and my mom told me afterwards that those long waiting moments between birthing
pushing waves I looked like I was asleep.
My MW told me we had to change things as my perineum was swelling and I told her just
to tell my what to do. I took the side-laying position now, on my left, and DH was
instructed to pull up and back on my right leg, opening my pelvis. I had to pull back on
that leg, too. My MW was also very serious in telling me that I had to push hard hard hard,
get this baby out. By this time, our baby had been in the birth canal, just crowning, for
close to 45 minutes. No one seemed concerned, but this sense of urgency did seem to
hover. On the first wave, I pushed, but the same thing, right back in she went. My MW was
instructing me now on my breath: As I feel the wave coming, take a deep breath, exhale,
then take another deep breath and hold it and push. I did that through a few of the waves
and was surprised that “how” to breath through this didn’t come more naturally. It was
very hard to hold my breath and push like that (I am in quite good physical shape, with
regular walking and yoga throughout the pregnancy), and at this point, I started this
spontaneous mantra: “I am ready to hold our baby in my arms.” I just kept on with this,
chanting it to myself, and at the same time, saying a prayer: “This child, as God’s divine
idea, is already here. I just need to bring it out.” These two things strengthened me and
really helped me get her out on the next push. Thank God!
I heard everyone’s excitement as she emerged and I could feel the relief and beautiful
slipping as the last of her body left mine. She was immediately brought to my chest and I
just remember looking at her and being awed that she was finally in my arms. The
geometry of her body suddenly made sense to me, I could see and feel the curve of her
little butt, the right angle of her elbow, and what was unknown to me for so many months
clicked and fit.
She was really pretty quiet. The staff roughed her dry with a towel and she cried a bit, then
just settled onto my chest. Then, oddly, for the FIRST TIME during the entire birth, I felt
discomfort. Come to find out, it was the baby’s umbilical cord, still attached, stretching up
over me and kind of cutting in to my crotch, like when jeans ride up! What a ridiculous
sensation, after a completely discomfort-free birth, to feel this!
Five minutes or so passed, and the MW’s assistant said, “Well, do you know what you have?
Don’t you want to know?” I just looked at her and mused and sighed. It was like that last
thing that mattered. “Yes”, I said. And they lifted little one and told us, “It’s a girl, you’ve
got a little girl.”
Baby Elsa stayed with us for 1 1/2 hours before the staff weighed her, etc., which was all
done just a few feet away in our room. Everyone was stunned to learn her size, 8 lbs., 14
oz. and 20″ long. This big of a baby came as a surprise as DH and I were both born 7 lbs.
a few ounces, at 40 weeks. I couldn’t imagine had Elsa had gone for a few more weeks-
babies do arrive on their “birth days”!
Elsa did get the Vitamin K shot and eye ointment a few hours later. She roomed in with us
and took to the breast 45 minutes after her birth. I did have tearing and stitches, and did
get anesthesia for the stitching up. (We did do perineum massage regularly pre-birth but
she was also a very big baby.) Elsa nursed throughout the night and has continued to
nurse. That said, she did lose 10% of her birth weight by the third day (down to 8 lbs.) but
by the fifth day, she was back up to 8 lbs. 6 oz. and she continues to gain.
My birth was 100% discomfort free. This alone, was miraculous. The best way to describe
the pressure (what I did feel, an incredible pressure) was that I had to take the biggest
poop ever (sorry if TMI). There is a lot more pressure directed on the bottom than I
The birthing time did take an extreme amount of focus and concentration to stay in the
Hypno-zone, and I did have to stay very very close to the idea that I take each wave as it
came. Just be in the moment. Remind myself that this was a gift I was giving my baby. I
couldn’t have done it without the support of my DH, who massaged and massaged me
through the entire birth, was there for me to lean on, literally and figuratively. The
experience was far more blissful than I imagined, not at all scary, and just beautiful. I
couldn’t have scripted a better birth for our new daughter, Elsa.